"He tries to kick his wife out even though he's the one at fault"... A husband's absurd affair involving everything from hornets to monkeys

On the talk program 'Dongchimi', where broadcasters appear, honest discussions took place regarding infidelity, temptation, and the psychological differences between men and women. Based on past experiences and statistical perspectives, the cast members shared stories about the different patterns of men and women who commit adultery.

"Men are hunters, women are selectors"... Instinctive differences in how men and women handle signals

The cast members noted that the way men and women receive the favor or signals of others is fundamentally different. According to the conversation in the video, men tend to greatly amplify even the smallest signals from the other party. It was analyzed that this is linked to the characteristic of having an optimistic and hopeful mindset to catch prey instinctively. In fact, according to statistics, while the percentage of men who think their partner fell for them in a blind date situation reaches 70%, the female percentage remains at the 30% level.

On the other hand, women were compared to the 'mindset of picking fruit.' Since they must put the best fruit in a limited basket, they do not easily believe the other party's favor unless it is certain and instead choose cautiously. The cast explained that due to this difference, men are easily shaken by small signals, while women exercise caution until they are certain. In particular, veteran cast members mentioned that small gestures or considerations shown by women can be misunderstood as signals of temptation by men, but they can accurately distinguish that it is merely consideration.

Between lack of love and responsibility, attitudes toward affairs between men and women

An in-depth conversation continued regarding the motives for committing adultery. The cast members cited 'lack of love' as one of the main reasons women begin an affair. It was suggested that when they feel they are not being loved, they are highly likely to fall for someone who treats them as precious, and in such cases, if their hearts fully align, they tend to immerse themselves in the relationship, leaving their families behind. A contrasting explanation was added that if a woman judges that their hearts are aligned, there are cases where she does not look back, even to the point of abandoning her children.

On the other hand, it was suggested that in the case of men, they often show relatively frivolous or temporary attitudes, such as worrying if problems will arise in the family while having an affair or thinking of it lightly. However, it was also shared that as times change, perceptions have shifted, with more women prioritizing their own lives or pleasure over protecting the family, showing a different pattern than in the past. A comparison was also made that while men tend to focus on material aspects, such as taking house documents when having an affair, women show different patterns, such as trying to take the children.

A husband who mobilized everything from hornets to monkeys... An absurd incident reported by 'Dongchimi News'

In this broadcast, an absurd affair incident was introduced through the 'Dongchimi News' corner, which re-examines past newspaper articles. The means used by a man in Israel to kick his wife out of the house to prevent her from interfering with his affair became a hot topic.

According to the news, the husband brought various animals into the house to kick out his wife, who was complaining about his infidelity. As the wife resisted, the husband harassed her by bringing wild animals into the house, including hornets, irritable monkeys, and parrots that peck at people. This was analyzed as an extreme case of a 'denial defense mechanism,' where one shows an aggressive attitude rather than admitting their own wrongdoing. The cast interpreted such behavior as a psychological defense mechanism, similar to how one might hide their head in the bushes out of fear when a tiger appears in reality.