Hanroro and AKMU's SUHYUN, "If a relationship harms me, it is right to end it"

Singer Hanroro and AKMU's SUHYUN shared stories about the disappointment they feel in human relationships and their individual ways of managing it. In a video released on the YouTube channel 'Hanroro HANRORO', based on stories sent by viewers, the two artists continued a conversation about maintaining and ending relationships, as well as the preciousness of ordinary daily life.

"Relationships where disappointment accumulates are not healthy"

The two agreed that it is natural for feelings of disappointment to arise as friendships deepen. In the video, one participant mentioned that when the disappointment felt after a relationship has deepened is not resolved through conversation, they close the door to their heart or end the relationship to protect themselves.

Regarding this, one participant said that even if they feel disappointment, they try to embrace that emotion themselves or transform the emotion by contemplating, 'Is this a situation where it is okay to feel disappointed?' In response to the question of whether such a process causes emotions to accumulate, they added that they sometimes choose to distance themselves naturally. They further explained that as they get older and focus on their respective lives, there are times when it is difficult to maintain friendships that require an effort to spend time. In particular, they defined a relationship where disappointment continuously accumulates as an unhealthy relationship in itself.

One participant revealed that when a friend they like makes a mistake, they immediately say that the behavior was unpleasant. If the other person is someone they can communicate with, they can adjust to each other through this, but they shared the view that if it is a relationship where the other person does not admit their mistakes, the relationship will eventually become tangled and cannot continue. Also, mentioning an experience of being hurt in the past and cutting off all connections, they said that since then, they go through a process of building relationships slowly and checking if they are resolvable. They also agreed on the point that it may be better to end a relationship that harms oneself.

"The happiness given by a peaceful day"

Regarding a story about whether ordinary daily life will be missed later, their respective experiences followed. One participant recalled the memory of inline skating all day with friends of various nationalities who did not speak the same language while living in Mongolia. They said that the ordinary daily lives of those times, which were nothing special, become the most missed memories like scenes in a movie after they pass.

Another participant cited ordinary conversations shared with family and a peaceful day without arguments as the standard for happiness. Emphasizing the preciousness of an ordinary daily life that passes without major incidents, they even leave the phrase 'Always have a peaceful day' when giving autographs to fans.