Ben reveals reason for deciding to separate 6 months after childbirth: "Trust crumbled"

Singer Ben calmly revealed the background of her marital conflicts and her decision to divorce after childbirth.

According to a video from TV CHOSUN's 'All By Myself', the singer Ben shared stories about her married life, parenting, and the separation process that became a turning point in her life. Ben began the conversation by recalling her past desire to marry early and the moments when her values aligned with her spouse. Ben shared that while preparing for marriage at twenty-nine, she felt such a connection with her partner that she thought, "I guess I am supposed to marry someone like this."

"Trust crumbled completely"... The decisive reason for choosing separation

Ben confessed to the friction that occurred during her marriage and the psychological pain she experienced because of it. In the video, Ben explained that she lived sweetly for about a year after marriage, but friction began to arise as things happened one after another. Ben expressed her feelings at the time, saying, "I felt like I had become a very easy person." She also revealed her upset heart, saying, "This isn't why I loved, this isn't why I gave my heart."

The decisive reason for deciding to separate was the issue of trust. Mentioning the environment she grew up in, Ben stated, "In the house where I grew up, the thing you must never do is lie." Ben explained that she experienced trust crumbling completely and said she decided that she could no longer allow such things to happen after having the baby. Ben suggested that the desire to make her child happy and only show her good things influenced her decision, saying, "After going through so many things after giving birth, I just found courage." Ben decided to divorce when it had been 6 months since she raised the baby.

"An angel who came to save me"... Meeting daughter Ria

Her daughter Ria (fetus name Ria) arrived while she was going through a difficult time and became a new driving force for Ben's life. Ben recalled that while she was hitting the hardest peak of her life, she let everything go and went on a trip, and during that rest, she conceived. Ben mentioned that having a child makes one strive to be happy, saying, "I feel like my daughter came to save me." Ben revealed that she gave the child the fetus name 'Ria' because the child arrived during a difficult time.

Currently, Ben is living the second act of her life while raising her daughter Ria. In the video, Ben shared her daily life with her 20-month-old daughter Ria. Recalling herself as "a very tomboyish, very bright little girl who loved singing," Ben shared her current status of continuing her life as Ria's mother.